The Don Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 There's a fine line between riding someone's ass/giving them shit and bullying that's been so blurred over the years... And everyone's become a victim because of it. I'll use Tamer as an example again since I "bullied" him. I followed him from topic to topic and rode his ass... Some would say that's bullying but pressure makes diamonds. ...Not saying he's a fucking diamond but he stuck it out and improved overall. He's still more than a bit of a twat but he's not as annoying now. Same goes for that kid with the Naomi fetish in Wrestling Discussion. He got shit, couldn't take it and apparently left. Now you may be asking "But Uncle Don, what is bullying then?" And I'll tell you. Bullying is if I was to go in every thread Aero made and constantly call him "A gay little poofster who loves takng the entire LA Lakers locker room in the ass every night." If I was to go on Twitter and say "Aero loves sex with big dicked black men, and he never lets them wear a condom. I hope his faggot ass gets AIDS!" Just constant personal attacks on and off of this site. Hell, what's called bullying now was every day on the SmackTalks! of old... even m0ts got in on it! Many nights were spend in a group chat with myself, Sal, Lain, Thom, James, Flip, Supa, Jitz, Ming and others that crossed the line into what you kids would call bullying now. But that's how it was, and damned if most of us didn't respect each other for it.
Spyder78 Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 There's a fine line between riding someone's ass/giving them shit and bullying that's been so blurred over the years... And everyone's become a victim because of it. I'll use Tamer as an example again since I "bullied" him. I followed him from topic to topic and rode his ass... Some would say that's bullying but pressure makes diamonds. ...Not saying he's a fucking diamond but he stuck it out and improved overall. He's still more than a bit of a twat but he's not as annoying now. Same goes for that kid with the Naomi fetish in Wrestling Discussion. He got shit, couldn't take it and apparently left. Now you may be asking "But Uncle Don, what is bullying then?" And I'll tell you. Bullying is if I was to go in every thread Aero made and constantly call him "A gay little poofster who loves takng the entire LA Lakers locker room in the ass every night." If I was to go on Twitter and say "Aero loves sex with big dicked black men, and he never lets them wear a condom. I hope his faggot ass gets AIDS!" Just constant personal attacks on and off of this site. Hell, what's called bullying now was every day on the SmackTalks! of old... even m0ts got in on it! Many nights were spend in a group chat with myself, Sal, Lain, Thom, James, Flip, Supa, Jitz, Ming and others that crossed the line into what you kids would call bullying now. But that's how it was, and damned if most of us didn't respect each other for it. I miss those types of groups were we would just crap on each other for hours on end and not one of us ever took it as a chap shot. We would be right back at it next day without missing a beat lol
The Don Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 But we can't do that anymore... At least not on the whole.
Sunny Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 There is a distortion of meaning of the word because the media has desensitized its concept. The method used in the olden days was to tighten people the fuck up. It's like the invisible lockeroom code the boys have always followed. Why fix it if it ain't broke? This implementation decreased the dickheads and turned visitors into full fledged members. These days, the publicity is good and all, but with it, comes consequences. It's become a Route 66 Motel with free entry and anyone can ruin the bedsheets with shit stains as they damn well please without any flack for it. You had to work your way up to get accepted, and even then, you weren't so sure. This is as true as it is in real life no matter what group you're joining. You have to adhere to principles and customs and if you're out of line, you will get saddled on. The excuse of "bullying" is just a free pass to diplomatic immunity like yelling "rape". You are going to have your share of white knights to jump on the gun because of misconceptions, and that only pollutes the issue even further. This was a disciplinary method with a high success rate. I can't even begin to tell you how much shit I got. Before me, there was Don, and so on. But, it was all worthwhile because it was for the better. It was a recipe for success. I was worse than a Tamer, or a Naomi dickrider, and you don't have to take my word for it. You had to actually think twice if you were new, "Damn what the hell will happen if I make this post? How will I be perceived? What will happen?" If you got shit for it, you knew what for. It 's not like anyone's getting censored. It's all a matter of checks and balances where the end justified the means.
AgeofSandow Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that.
Big Pete® Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that.Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali.
fufu ÷ Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali. He said he speaks Punjabi (or some Indian language) as a first language.
FrickinAwesome Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 There is a distortion of meaning of the word because the media has desensitized its concept. The method used in the olden days was to tighten people the fuck up. It's like the invisible lockeroom code the boys have always followed. Why fix it if it ain't broke? This implementation decreased the dickheads and turned visitors into full fledged members. These days, the publicity is good and all, but with it, comes consequences. It's become a Route 66 Motel with free entry and anyone can ruin the bedsheets with shit stains as they damn well please without any flack for it. You had to work your way up to get accepted, and even then, you weren't so sure. This is as true as it is in real life no matter what group you're joining. You have to adhere to principles and customs and if you're out of line, you will get saddled on. The excuse of "bullying" is just a free pass to diplomatic immunity like yelling "rape". You are going to have your share of white knights to jump on the gun because of misconceptions, and that only pollutes the issue even further. This was a disciplinary method with a high success rate. I can't even begin to tell you how much shit I got. Before me, there was Don, and so on. But, it was all worthwhile because it was for the better. It was a recipe for success. I was worse than a Tamer, or a Naomi dickrider, and you don't have to take my word for it. You had to actually think twice if you were new, "Damn what the hell will happen if I make this post? How will I be perceived? What will happen?" If you got shit for it, you knew what for. It 's not like anyone's getting censored. It's all a matter of checks and balances where the end justified the means. You know, I still think that sometimes.
AgeofSandow Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 no reason to hate on him, despite any confusion with languages.
FrickinAwesome Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 (edited) Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali. He said he speaks Punjabi (or some Indian language) as a first language. It was Hindi actually. Edit: My bad, I thought he mistakenly spelled Hindu. Edited September 18, 2014 by FrickinAwesome
DrJoeyMagnum Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. That's Tamer would shits on Regins isn't it?
fufu ÷ Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali. He said he speaks Punjabi (or some Indian language) as a first language. It was Hindu actually. Hindi*
Big Pete® Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali. He said he speaks Punjabi (or some Indian language) as a first language.My bad, he duped me with his location. Ye swine.
FrickinAwesome Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. Hes austrailian, last time I checked they dont speak somali. He said he speaks Punjabi (or some Indian language) as a first language. It was Hindu actually. Hindi* I fixed it.
Sunny Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that. I was about to thoroughly research on our fellow Indian mate, but then I ran into this post. I don't think there is anything further to discuss.
Big Pete® Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 (edited) Ok, I'm not talking about anything with Tamer but I've seen people shitting on guys like Roman Regins for his bad english since he's not american, and mispelling his name despite him not being able to change it. That is what we don't need. Stupid stuff like that.I was about to thoroughly research on our fellow Indian mate, but then I ran into this post. I don't think there is anything further to discuss.He's a good cat. Edited September 18, 2014 by Big Pete®
Codes. Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 The last thing we need on this forum are ban happy moderators, Codes is the best moderator I've ever seen. He is seen where he is needed and that's how I like it Most of the forum disagree Most of the forum doesn't understand what I've contributed to the site. You'll see in a few days how much I did contribute. Like I said though everyone will continue to blame me as I'm the face of the staff and not themselves because they don't have any self control on the internet.
The Don Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Sunny gets it. The bit about thinking before you post is true. Shit, I still think that and have decided against well thought out posts because I know that some fuckmook will come in and take it the wrong way or just not understand the point thus killing the thread. And FA, glad to see you agreeing (somewhat) with my line of thinking via Sunny, but you're just as bad as the rest of the idiots who take this place to seriously. I think you and Auday were jerking off while PMing each other about the "4Mod" threads.
Nate Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 The last thing we need on this forum are ban happy moderators, Codes is the best moderator I've ever seen. He is seen where he is needed and that's how I like it Most of the forum disagree Most of the forum doesn't understand what I've contributed to the site. You'll see in a few days how much I did contribute. Like I said though everyone will continue to blame me as I'm the face of the staff and not themselves because they don't have any self control on the internet.
FrickinAwesome Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Sunny gets it. The bit about thinking before you post is true. Shit, I still think that and have decided against well thought out posts because I know that some fuckmook will come in and take it the wrong way or just not understand the point thus killing the thread. And FA, glad to see you agreeing (somewhat) with my line of thinking via Sunny, but you're just as bad as the rest of the idiots who take this place to seriously. I think you and Auday were jerking off while PMing each other about the "4Mod" threads. I've never once sent someone a PM.
The Don Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 ^ <---- The point ° <----- Your head 1
FrickinAwesome Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Straight Over... Twice! lol. Oh no, I saw it, I just didn't bother to acknowledge it.
Auday Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 ^ <---- The point ° <----- Your head Lol I read it again, 5:22 am here sorry. xD
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