CanaMatt Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 and she finally passed this morning. I am sad and all that, but I'm pretty okay, and actually somewhat relieved. Quote
Aero Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 i'm sorry to here that man, having gone through something similar, i know what you mean about the relief, if you need someone to talk to that isnt close to you or whatever, i'm always about. will be thinking about you man. Quote
CanaMatt Posted February 5, 2008 Author Posted February 5, 2008 Thanks guys. Really, the day has been great(as it can be). My whole family is over, and we're drinking, and having alot of fun. I know thats what she would want that, but I feel kind of guilty to be having such a great time, even though there is no reason to. I dunno. Fucked day. Quote
The Don Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Atleast your family is going about it the right way, yeah it's sad, but celebrate her life rather than mourn her death. Quote
Heart Breaker Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Man, I'm so sorry to hear that Matt. But being relieved is completely understandable. I hope you stay in high spirits during such a tough time. Quote
Fozy Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Shit man, I think I felt pretty much the same when it happened. I was so happy she had stopped suffering, I was relieved. I'm really sorry to hear, though. You know I'm here for you man, no matter what. Quote
Smacktalks Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Sorry to hear about your loss Matt, it's always a wierd feeling when the family all pull together and you find yourself feeling guilty about enjoying yourself, but it's good to get everyone together and celebrate her life. My thoughts are with you mate. Quote
Aero Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 well, when dad was in hospital for over 2 months before he went, we learnt to let go, kept our grief up there and got over feeling guilty, tho this is mainly because we have countless memories of dad just enjoying life, a prime example was him dancing up a road in a pink hat and a pair of oversized underpants whilst SOBER. sure we still felt a bit like when in public we had to be a bit reserved, i.e not laughing and carrying on too much when we all went for a bite after visiting hours, incase ppl saw us, and the in no way was the whole experience enjoyable, but u are just right to make the most of it, enjoy life and get on with living because ur mum would want you to AND life unfortunately does go on for the rest of you wether you are ready for it or not. Quote
bigpoppn Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 When I was 10 or so, my grandpa died, after laying in the hospital for three months.Tho I wasn't really old enough to understand what was going on, I realised what happened after the funeral's reception, and now I still feel guilty because I was celebrating at the reception.But it's better to celebrate. Hang in there Matt. Quote
CanaMatt Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 Thanks for the words guys, and yeah, I think I am pretty okay. I can't even really mourn properly though, because I have fallen iller than I have in 10 years, fucked or what? Quote
Sorry Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Remember, mourn her life and celebrate her death. Quote
Subrick Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Shut the fuck up, you insensitive asshole. Quote
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