Sunny Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 As according to the title, yeah, my aunt died today. I received the news from my mother as she had been by her side every day through thick and thin ver since she had a coma a while back. I had been to the hospital by her side every day last week mourning. Now, it's just too hard as I'm crying. She already had her funeral finished as it wasn't that big or anything 'cause just got back from it. *Sigh* R.I.P auntie, I hope u r blessed in heaven. Heaven isn't complete without u. Thanks for all the support and advice u gave me. Thank u Smacktalks. Say what u have to say but please not anything negative. All right, later. Quote
Sunny Posted January 17, 2008 Author Posted January 17, 2008 Thanks for the support man :tired. Quote
ALL STAR Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 (edited) Really sorry to hear this R.I.P. Edited January 18, 2008 by ALL STAR Quote
FlashYorkHunt Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 i had the same thing happen to me and i know what you are going through and i know that you will get throught it but sorry to hear. R.I.P. Quote
Sunny Posted January 18, 2008 Author Posted January 18, 2008 (edited) [quote name='D3$ Edited January 18, 2008 by Sunnyxtremepunk Quote
bigpoppn Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 This is hard. You'll get through it. R.I.P. Quote
Aero Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 ok, im not gonna say i know what ur going thru etc, because everyone, and every situation is different, but i'll say this- my father died over 2 years ago, my mum is generally very strong too but after 2 months at the hospital watching him get worse until the machines where taken off took its toll on my whole family, i really wasnt coping and the day we went up to watch the machines get switched off, i've never cried so hard or made such a scene. this is when my brother took me out for some fresh air and told me to look at my brothers and sisters, REALLY look at them. they seemed like the tower of strength mum used to be, but when you actually try to look past it, they all felt like me. mum didnt, she was just a wreck. my bro pointed out that we all needed mum and dad for sooo many years, now she needs us, i knew my dad MY whole life, but thats nothing compared to how long mum knew him for, the only thing she's known in years was slipping away and she just couldnt put on that face. i dunno how big ur family is, i needed my whole family to give me the strength to be there for my mum, be what she used to be for a while, she'll start to come around. i'm very sorry for your loss. Quote
Nemo Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 sorry about your loss. hopefully you have 1000s of family members like aero that will help you ease the pain. Quote
Aero Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 aye, we breed like rabbits.... and with rabbits, over here. Quote
Aero Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 in fear of turning this topic into a joke topic, which it shouldn't... how funny is it that TAKERSfan, simply posted R.I.P? or am i on my own with that one? Quote
takersfan Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 (edited) Hey what the hell im serious...lol Edited January 18, 2008 by takersfan Quote
Sunny Posted January 18, 2008 Author Posted January 18, 2008 (edited) sorry about your loss. hopefully you have 1000s of family members like aero that will help you ease the pain. Thank-u very much everybody. Today, it's the same, sad, situation as my mom just mourns and reminiscences on her sister's memory and speaks to other family members of mine on the phone. I don't actually have a very big family, but its moderate. Recovering is just beginning and my cousins (aunt's children) are staying over my other auntie's house. Seeing them crying also affects me as they have lost a mother and father. Her youngest daughter who is only 13 was crying a lot as was her son who is 17. Thank-u again for ur words and messages. I really means a lot for me. Edited January 18, 2008 by Sunnyxtremepunk Quote
FlashYorkHunt Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 Aero i also noticed that.RIP?WTF?But to get back on topic stay near your mom at these times and help her whenever needed and it took my dad about 2-3 weeks to completely get over it, so im there for ya D3stroy3r_Killer@hotmail.com i should be on. Quote
FlashYorkHunt Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 maybe not completely but where he doesnt cry every day Quote
The Crow Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Sorry to hear man, R.I.P Sunnyextremepunk's aunt may god be with you in heaven. Quote
Sunny Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Sorry to hear man, R.I.P Sunnyextremepunk's aunt may god be with you in heaven. Thank u very much man. Recovering is going on a little smooth as I feel a little better. It's gonna be very hard to get over it, but hey, u gotta move on. Quote
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