another topic about women

[Aero]

ok, so heres the deal -

my last GF was textin me on sunday, going on and on about this shithole of a bar thats having a re-opening. i slagged it for a few texts, but she went on and on about how good it will be.

after a while i said i should stop slagging it off as no doubt i'd end off in it one day, to which she replied great, sure i'll see you there on friday if you're out (seemd very presumptious (sp?)) but it wasnt an invite really was it? anyways, it looks like im going, not sure what to expect from her tho, im guessing just friends.

anyways, she was online there, had a wee small chat, thought we'd finished and i get a text after a few mins saying "sorry, think i broke computer, im not being rude" now she's on again and messaging again.

whats up with that? im lost.

[Jonny]

Cock hungry girl I'm guessing. Don't give into her that easily if she's trying it with you!

[Aero]

fuck that, i'll settle for fuck buddy for a bit.

[Jonny]

Feelings usually get tangled up when you venture into ex territory though. Unless you're Thom.

[Smacktalks]

She might want to get back with you, although it depends how things ended.

If you want to get back with her though, why question it? Just go for it and see what happens.

If it turns out she just wants a good time, Unzip, do her, zip up and leave.

You might also want to insert "smoke cigar" in there aswell.

[Aero]

nice paul, will consider it.

she has requested i tell her if there is good music anywhere, and i said if im out on my own (im going to support my bro's band for an hour anyways) i might call in and see her after for 1 drink, to which she said i'll see you 2mw night, so i know she wants to see me. if its just as friends that'll be fine, if she wants more happy days. we finished it on good terms paul, so both endings are possible.

as for feeling getting tangled etc jonny, im already fucked up over this girl, so it's not gonna make much of a difference, i know where to draw lines so if its sex and just sex, atleast im getting sex, and if anything, all it will make her do is want more than sex so we'll see

expect drunking crying video on youtube 2mw night about how im heartbroken lol

[Thom]

She's employing exactly the same method as Thom Archer. If I want to see a girl I'll ask if they're out at a certain time/place I'll ask them if they are, and if they sound unsure then I just say I'll see them then. It's got a pretty good success rate, unless the girls you use it on are too shy and find the confidence you exhude overbearing.

My guess is she's horny, she's possibly shagged someone since you split up but she wasn't comfortable enough around the guy to enjoy it fully, so now when she wants sex, she wants to be calling out your name; "Aero". Go along with this drink, be charming, funny and friendly, if you feel that it won't make the situation awkward bring up why you split up in a jokey way, it'll show her you're not bitter. If you're going to have sex with her, it's vital that beforehand you both agree why you're doing it and what you expect from it. Follow these guidelines and you're set.

[Aero]

cheers thom, was looking for your input.

i'll settle for sex, i've accepted that we may never get back, not expecting a relationship but wil go with it if she wants to.. tho if thats the case there is a bit of stuff to sort out first. never the less i'm not exactly in a place where i'm ready to move on unless i'm super drunk lol... but that could result in brewers droop, resulting in no sex lol, so this is the best bet for me to get a ride. i doubt she slept with anyone else, but its none of my business really, she'll tell me if she wants to.

my only fear thom is that, she is a girl, and as such may not think the same way, making your advice redundant, but im hoping not, she did have the tendency to get rather horny. as for the joking about break up bit, think i'll just avoid it unless there is a glaringly obvious joke that i can make that wont upset her at some stage through the night.

[Aero]

yeah, so she was there, at thr start of thr night she chatted to me but was more intersted in her friend.

so i tried it on with 3 different girls and as it turned out one was the ring leader so i knew i was screwed, i sent her a personal text message, letting her know i went home, bt i think im fucked.

no interst in geting new women whilst she wants new men. i feel like shit.

[Aero]

wow, that makes like no sesne HAHAHAHA so drunk.

aye, so, she did appear last night, chatted away until her work friends pulled her away and they stayed in a group all night, tho i gather she never took her eyes off me.

i tried chatting up some random girl, which led to me sorta chatting up 3 girls, dunno what that ringleader shit is about, but anyways, i bottled it tho i was doing quite well.

i got hammered and stupidly sent her a text telling her i;ve never seen her look more sexier, then went home and typed that shite above.

i have no idea if she wants new men, like i said, she was in a group of friends all of last night, but the fact does remain that all i want is her and as such i'm stuck.

i shouldnt be allowed near phones or computers when im drunk haha