A Hot Lass.

[bigpoppn]

That's what I was thinking becuz some of the things I dream, really come true in a certain same way.She hangs out with the more nerd girls in the year so I don't have to worry about the gf's of the girl I think.I know that if I tell a single thing against her, everyone will know.That's so shit.But I can abuse that too .Anyways, going off to skool.cya.

EDIT: It certainly could happen becuz we're going on a trip with skool in about two weeks.

Edited September 14, 2007 by The Nature Boy

[CS]

Haha this isn't love, its something called lust. You'll think your in love with her until you fuck her and then she's just another girl with a nice ass, I'm pretty sure Thom would back me up on this. Also my advice would be to not drag this out, if you wait too long she'l jsut think your too pussy to ask her out, the key in all of this is confidence.

She'l like that you told her you think she's hot to her face but you gotta be able to back it up now and not just smile when she looks at you, talk to her and if she looks even half interested ask her out soon, if you wait too long she'll move on and you'll be dateless.

The single most important thing is to be confident, I learned this early on in the dating game but all you other youngens better learn it quick or your hopelss, looks can only take you so far. Oh and another poppn, you better not be thinking about half-ass asking her out over msn, never EVER ask a girl out over the internet, in person is the best and if you don't have the balls for that try the phone but never over msn. The girl will think your a coward and then shut you down and tell all her friends about it.

[glenrich9908]

Haha this isn't love, its something called lust. You'll think your in love with her until you fuck her and then she's just another girl with a nice ass, I'm pretty sure Thom would back me up on this. Also my advice would be to not drag this out, if you wait too long she'l jsut think your too pussy to ask her out, the key in all of this is confidence.

She'l like that you told her you think she's hot to her face but you gotta be able to back it up now and not just smile when she looks at you, talk to her and if she looks even half interested ask her out soon, if you wait too long she'll move on and you'll be dateless.

The single most important thing is to be confident, I learned this early on in the dating game but all you other youngens better learn it quick or your hopelss, looks can only take you so far. Oh and another poppn, you better not be thinking about half-ass asking her out over msn, never EVER ask a girl out over the internet, in person is the best and if you don't have the balls for that try the phone but never over msn. The girl will think your a coward and then shut you down and tell all her friends about it.

Must admit thats the cold hard facts i must agree with jordan

[Thom]

I'm with Jordan 100%. I've asked girls out over the internet a few times when I've been too scared to ask them face to face, but doing it in person is so much better. They think more of you for it, and you think more of yourself for it so it gives you a great confidence boost.

I won't go into the science of dreams, and no offence to Glenn what-so-ever, but interpreting dreams as a preminition of something that will happen in the future is absolute bullshit. When you dream it's your sub-concious at work, things that you've had in mind without even realising it. You've realised that you're going on a trip and so is this girl, so at some point you've put the two together and thought that you could possibly hook it up on the trip. If you've got the balls to go for it then it could possibly happen, but it'll have nothing to do with you foreseeing it in a dream.

I don't really understand what's actually gone on between you now because in the past two-hundred posts you've managed to achieve having your jackass friend tell her you think she's hot, and then re-establish that several times. If you think there's any chance that she might have said the same about you, then stop being a vagina and ask her to go somewhere with you. If she didn't say the same and your friends have a good laugh about it, punch them in their assholes, but it doesn't mean that just because she hasn't said anything to your friends that she would say no. If she does say no, who the fuck cares? Handle your first rejection and learn from your mistakes, at least you've had the balls to put yourself out there instead of being a dinkus and interfering in your friends romantic interests.

Post a picture of both you and her, we still don't know if you're actually punching above your weight. Up until the age of 16 there are definite "Leagues", when you get to 17/18 then any guy can get pretty much any girl based on charisma and personality, but up until then I'm afraid not. Pictures are vital.

[bigpoppn]

Anyone above me is completely right.Me and the mate who shouted went for a smoke in a park ( he was smoking, I didn't) and we had a really good chat.Normally I don't ask girls out face to face but that last chance was last year and I've changed a lot.So we are going on a trip with skool and the last day there is something very much alike a prom.It's my best chance.I'll ask her the second day when she feel comfortable there.The mate said he would ask her to the prom if I didn't.Another motivation to do it.I didn't want to but now I'm full of confidence about it.I COMPLETELY agree on not asking a girl out via the internet.I never did it, and never will.Most likely she'll say yes.I think my chances are 65-35 in my favor.If she says no, I can still get my iPod and just listen to some songs in the room while feeling down.I've decided just to ask her to the prom, mano to mano.WOOOOOOOO.lolz.It's the best chance I'll have.Someone said the friend shouting that I liked her was a good thing but when I read it I thought it wasn't.Turns out, it's the best thing ever!!She noticed me and kindof expects I'll ask her.There are 25 boys to ask out 55 girls.The girls that'll remain will be laughed at.lmao.Anyhow, I'm just gonna do it but everytime I get around her I get kindof nervous.My mates have decided to quit with the jokes about me and her.They called her "my flame".But anyways, she notices me in class, after class, etc.I'm "known" as the funny guy in class and arguing with teacher and making the class laugh.The class is also the girl.She thinks I'm funny, I like her and the mate also told me that he called for me but that I didn't heard it and then the girl said "Leave him alone, it isn't fun anymore" and the mate of mine said "Are you protecting him or what?" and she said "Mmmm".I dunno what that means becuz it's women slang but anyways, I'm confident about asking her, I'm gonna push myself to go to her and ask it.I'll ask it on the trip.The trip is in two weeks and it lasts three days.

[Aero]

you're building this up too much now in my opinion, im probably wrong here, its been a while since i did the whole asking ppl out thing. but -

stop going on and on about it, it will put too much pressure on you and make you more likely to bottle out. stop trying to read every little action (easier said than done, ask hb, im doing it about kirsty at the minute lol) and mayb even consider asking her at another time for 2 reasons, 1, you may not get the chance on the 2nd day of this trip and 2, if there is 25 guys and 55 girls, whats to stop one of these other guys getting in there first?

[bigpoppn]

The other guys are all "nerds" and I'm hanging out with the cool guys and they know I like her.They probably don't even know her.I know about reading out every action but dude, she's awesomely hot.I just wanted the trip was right now.The second day I'll ask it because: Everyone will feel more comfortable in an area they never been, she'll know me better and I think I'll have the chance.I'll ask her when I see her alone or something.I thought about asking to speak to her in private as she is always around friends but I'm not seeing that in a good view.I'll ask her the second day from when I get the chance.

[Aero]

OR....

get her to go out with you BEFORE the trip, then the whole trip will be much more enjoyable, wink wink etc.

plus that way, if she rejects you, you can try and hook up with another girl there and see if it makes her jealous... i dont get 14 year olds any more... fuck, i'll be 24 in october, scary biscuits.

[bigpoppn]

But the thing is, I'm fucking horrible at those things.I can go for a drink with somebody I know but I pretty fast get out of subjects to talk about.One way or the other, the friends of her will hear everything I did, etc.I'm planning on just asking her, have an enjoyable night and see how it goes.

[Aero]

you run out of things to talk about? she's a new girl, ask her questions, get to know her, thats what girls like. let her jabber on and pretend to listen.... or if you can, actually listen to her.

[bigpoppn]

I'l stick with the prom thing.When she says yes, when, then I'll talk with her about that.

[CS]

I'm completely lost on whats happened since I made my post but from what I can tell your starting to obsessed over her. Your making a big mistake here though, your building things up too much but thats natural every guy has done it at your age. Whats this about a prom, aren't you like 14 and just started about grade 8?

[bigpoppn]

It's not a prom like you guys know it.

To help Jordan understand what's happened: in about two weeks we're going to a skool trip somewhere in France and it's for three days.We got a letter in class saying you should bring "prom" clothing with you.I asked what it should be and the teacher said the guys should be in a decent costume or something like that.I assume every guy is gonna ask a lass to go to the prom.So I was thinking about asking her but I didn't knew how.I was chatting with the mate who was shouting that I liked her in a park about it and he said If you're not gonna ask her, I will and rub it in your face.I found it another reason to indeed ask her.So I decided to ask her and I hope she says yes.If she says no, it'll be a fucked up night.Now, I call it a prom but it's actually a party to end the trip with.Since guys have to be in decent costumes and girls have to be dressed up nicely too, I made the association with a prom.

Capiche??

[Aero]

cum on her face, if she licks ot off, you're in there, if she does anything else, you're probably buggered.

also, timing is key when doing this, hide behind a tree when she's passing or something.... that or just tie her to chair and wank over her.

[bigpoppn]

You drunk again??

[Aero]

nope, stone cold sober, just being weird.

[bigpoppn]

Oh, ok.

Some ppl have said I'm building this up too much and they're right.The trip is in two weeks and I'm already thinking of all of the stuff that could happen.I think it's somewhat normal.Anyway, her's the plan:Wait untill the second day, then be the cool guy and ask : Hey, wanna go to this prom-thing with me?Hopefully she says yes and then everything is damn fine.Any other suggestions or tips??

[Aero]

i gave you a top a few posts back and you shunned it, no more advice for you.

[bigpoppn]

Nononononono, I said any OTHER suggestions.

I think I'm, I dunno, in love with the girl without actually wanting.I just find her fuckin' hot.Now this trip is here and I startes dreaming and thinking of what could happen.I dunno what I've got to make up of this.On a sidenote, we will be in two different busses and we'll be driving for about 5 hours.There are groups made and the group you're with is the same group on the bus.The mate is there also but I dunno if she will be there.I hope so because she looks like wanting to talk to me.And I hope not because then my mates will be watching us all of the time which pisses me off.

[Aero]

ffs man, you know absolutely nothing about this girl, you don't love her. she's hot, you're 14 and as such your hormones are taking control, wether you realise or not you just want to fuck the shit out of her because she's hot. mayb when you get to know her you can say you love her, but at the minute is lust, pure and simple... dirty, complicated lust. I've been there, hell i still lust after one of my ex's who i thought i loved, and you'll probably not realise either until you do propperly fall for someone.

[bigpoppn]

Could be true.And indeed, I don't really know her.But yeah, I'll get to know her on this trip I guess.Now, anyone got some tips to talk about with her??

[Aero]

just ask questions, listen, comment on what she says to show you're listening, mayb try to relate to what she say.. then ask another question etc

[bigpoppn]

Yeah, exactly what I was thinking.I only know her full name.So there aren't many subjects to talk about.Or maybe that could be an advantage.Anyway, some ppl must've thought why I said I thought I was in love with her but it's just, I think about her almost every moment of the day.

[Aero]

still lust

[bigpoppn]

Yeah, well any other tips on what to talk about or anything is welcome.I'm off seeing The Vicar Of Dibley.That show cracks me up.xD