Guys,give me a hand will ya?

[bigpoppn]

So here is the story:

At school I have an awesome -really hot- girlfriend (the normal friend relationship) and lately we have grown a lot towards eachother and just hugged,holded hands and occasionally she kisses me and vica versa(on the cheek people,on the cheek) but i really like her but i saw her do the same with a really close friend of mine(except for the kissing on the cheeks)and then she just ignored him:Friday,she hugs him as they both go home.Monday,she totally ignores him and she just like "dumped" him (without them having a relation) and after a period she came to me.The girl I'm talking about is a really hot girl(fucking awesome body,blonde hair,blue eyes) but I'm kinda scared she will do the same to me like she did with my friend wich is just ignore me en dump me(without us having a relationship).

Long story I know but if you got any help at all,just give it.Thanks.

[Aero]

she sounds like a cock tease! be honest with her, tell her you want to take it a bit further and see what happens, do it in private, that way if she is a bitch about it you can just deny the whole thing, if it works out, you've got yourself a hot girlfriend.

failing all that, drug her up and slip it in her!

[bigpoppn]

Thanks Aero but that's another problem: we were talking and a girlfriend of here asked us:are you guys a couple and she immediately said NO and then winked at me so i don't know what she ment by that and she is almost constantly with a friend but if i would catch her i private and asked her : 1.I don't know if I would have the guts to ask it and 2.if i had the guts to ask it and she says no the whole school will know about it anyhow because you know girls.Eve if i deny it they will still think its true.But thanks for the tip Aero.

[bigpoppn]

UPDATE:just a minute ago:the girl said on MSN : How many kisses do you have to have from me?(we always kiss on the cheek at the end of the school)and i said how many what(being the stupid guy i am) then she said :on the cheek.I said : oh yeah that, none.(meaning on the mouth would be much better)then she immediately said:I already have a boyfriend and he's 15(fucking girls and their boyfriends of 15-16-17 years old) and now I asked why are you so mad in your answers?(because she is but i won't post the whole conversation since it's in Dutch I would have to translate the whole thing and I'm to tired-and lazy)and now she just answered saying : I can't help it that I'm so hot.I don't get her or am I just to stupid t get it.

[Aero]

ok, again, she really does sound like a bloody cock tease, but anyways, heres more advice -

GROW SOME BALLS

im not being funny, but these things happen, you have to put yourself out there if you want to succeed, and at the end of the day, you are asking a girl out, if she says no, its not the end of the world. also, yes a few ppl may get a few jokes in, it may be slightly unnerving but you are asking out an incredibly hot girl, there are many that wouldnt have the balls to ask the likes of her out at all, so at worst, its something to take pride in, having guts goes a long way, in relationships and the rest of life.

also, she could say yes! and she is your friend, so she'll not be mean about it!

[bigpoppn]

Could be but i'm bad at dates and at school i'm all about being the funny guy but at home i'm a kinda shy guy.And the girl said earlier she was mad as hell on me but she didn't said why and of course i asked why she was mad at me and she answered:I'm just playing with you.I don't get her AT ALL.

[Aero]

after reading your update & your last post, new advice. she's a crazy bitch / cock tease. stay away from her in that way, tell her to stop with the who cheek kissing thing etc.

[bigpoppn]

-She just likes to fuck with people and sometimes that hits hard.About the stay-away advice : I already considered that but she is to hot for that.

[Aero]

stay in contact, see if that works, but just dont do the whole kissy hold hands thing.

[CS]

Seeing as this is pretty much what happened to me two years ago which ended with me being heartbroken and her not hurting at all.

My advice is..Get out and as fast as you can, all this is going to lead to is you thinking about her more and more until you finally make some half-fucked attempt at asking her out and end up making a complete fool of yourself in which you will regret doing for a long time while she feels nothing except for one momentarilly second of pity for you.

[Aero]

cs, to be fair, just because thats what happened to you doesnt mean thats whats always gonna happen

[CS]

I went to far in saying it's pretty much what happened to me, its similar to what happened to me but it was under totally different circumstances. What I said is going to happen didn't happen to me, what happened to me was way different but it was probally for the best, just a Iain.

[Fozy]

What? Just a Iain? Dude, I don't get heartbroken, I just fuck people and regret it.

[jitz]

Ok read a fair bit at the start, then I got bored and figured you were just going to repeat yourself over and over again anyways.

Girls are stupid, it's that simple. So are more stupid than others, you're obviously attracted to one that is on the more stupid side of things.

You're obviously too young for sex, so this is all just a huge waste of your time.

Here's what to do: Get a good image of her in your head, rub one out, and forget about her.

[bigpoppn]

that would be hard: she's in my class so I see her every day .

[CS]

Lol it was supposed to say just ask Iain but I missed a letter or two.

[Jhardy_jr]

I would have to agree with aero on this one, judging by your posts i would say your prob like 15-16...so seriously just suck it up and ask her out, if she says no. Fuck it, at least you tried. There's nothing worse then not asking and then finding out later on taht you COULD have had her. If your not a dick about it then she wont be mean and she'' say no. End of story and go back to being friends.

Just make sure your not the "trying to catch a peep while she's in the shower" friend

[Thom]

Ignoring anything anybody's said since the first three posts, I'm gonna throw in my two cents;

Firstly, don't ask her out. If she already has a boyfriend she's gonna say no. If she says yes, you've seen how she treats her boyfriends and you'll get screwed over.

As Aero said, you need to grow a pair. Stop making yourself so available, don't pander to her every whim, be mysterious, brooding, hard to get, girls love that. Much as you'd love to play grab-the-ass all day long, I can guarantee that that's as far as it will ever go, and she'll get bored easily. Present her with a challenge, if she holds your hand, find some way of subtley letting go. If she actually works for it, then you know that she cares enough to make some effort. Then, you get her drunk, and you nail her.

[Aero]

listen to thom!

[Thom]

They don't call me Thom "Once had sex" Archer because I don't know how to treat a lady.

[Aero]

so why do they call you that?

[Thom]

Because I once had sex.

With a girl! B) (We need a better sunglasses emoticon)

[Aero]

lies

[Thom]

Seriously we do, it sucks.

[Aero]

so does your mum hahahahahaha!

find a better one and i'll pretend to do something about it for you, ok?