Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 If your girlfriend was to go and do a modelling photoshoot with some person you had never heard of, then sent you the pictures hoping you would like them, but then when you got the pictures they were more aless softcore porn. What would your reaction be? My girlfriend did that today. Sure they were hot as hell.. But the thought of some old guy taking pictures of my girlfriend, half naked, with her legs open really fucking pisses me off. She thought they were sexy, they were. She thought I would be proud of her in some way, like I would love the pictures and be all "omg =O *boner*" Fact is, I'm too fucking angry to even think anything of the sort. And no bullshit retarded replies. And no, nobody is getting the pictures. Quote
Heart Breaker Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 No one can blame you for being upset. It's a natural reaction. I'd be surprised if you didn't feel that way, to be honest. Don't take it out on her though. She probably didn't even know better. Just calmly describe your feelings to her. Let her know your concerns and how much it bothered you. You can't control her, but you can let her know what bothers you. If she cares, she'll stop or she'll help you feel better about the situation. Hope everything works out for you. Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 I explained to her how I felt and all that, she thought I had went off her because of it. Then she told me she'd stop doing modelling, if it made me happy. Reverse psycology, I can't stop her from doing it. I feel pretty shitty right now, although I'm calming down. There was some pictures that made me pretty mad, one of them was, she was squating on the ground, with her legs open, wearing nothing but stripey tights and a corset. Also her nipples were showing above the top of the corset. She thought it looked fine and seen no harm in having her legs open like that and found her nipples showing quite humroues. I don't think she understands how guys minds work. What angers me more, is that she's only 16. Quote
Heart Breaker Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 16? Are you kidding me? Yeah. That's really fucked up. She shouldn't be doing it. At that age, especially. Quote
crunk Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 All you can do is to make sure she doesn't get taken advantage of. Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 I shit you not man. And to think it was a 57 year old man taking them and there is hundreds more, so she says. I'm very distraught over all of this. Quote
Heart Breaker Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Sorry once again Jonny. Yeah. If I were you, I'd try my best to make her stop. Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 Well, I'm writing her a lengthy message right now. As she's in bed, she will read it tommarow. I do believe this is putting my relationship in danger. If she doesn't stop with those types of pictures, I'll have no other choice but reluctantly break up with her. Quote
The Don Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 I shit you not man. And to think it was a 57 year old man taking them and there is hundreds more, so she says. I'm very distraught over all of this. Jesus... isn't that shit illegal? Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 Ofcourse it is. The nipslips were "accidental" and he kept telling her to fix her top. If he was a gentleman and wasn't a big fucking dirty pedo, he wouldn't have used to the pictures with the nipslips! Quote
Jhardy_jr Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 dude...16 ? thats fucked up, talk to her about it and just be happy hes not an actual crazy fucking pedo who rapes girls then one who likes taking pictures of them. Or you might be minus one 16 year old Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 (edited) dude...16 ? thats fucked up, talk to her about it and just be happy hes not an actual crazy fucking pedo who rapes girls then one who likes taking pictures of them. Or you might be minus one 16 year old Dude, shut the fuck up. HB, how does this sound? I can't sleep, I've been thinking alot. I can't stop thinking about those pictures and stuff. I didn't mean to offend you or anything when I went all weird over them, because you do look amazing in them. But you really have to know how I feel. I was talking to a (guy) friend earlier, about this situation. I didn't tell him it was true, I just made up a scenario, to get someone else's view on how they would feel. Just incase it was just me being weird. He felt the same way as I have been, all guys would. I don't think you see how hurtful it was for me to see pictures of you like that, that somebody had taken. It really wasn't a nice feeling at all. I know you see no harm in them, but from my perspective, it hurts alot. I love you very much, and that's why it hurts to see you getting pictures taken like that. I'm not asking you to stop modelling, because I know you want to do it and you are beautifull. I'm just asking you, please don't get any more pictures taken like that again. When I was talking to you on the phone and stuff, you did make me feel better and I forgot about those pictures. But when I saw them again when I went onto my PC, it dragged me right down again. This wasn't meant to be a whiney moany letter, it's just me telling you how I really feel. And please don't be even thinking the thought that I'm going off you in any way. I'm letting you know this becuase I don't want to end up forcing myself away from you because of being hurt by seeing or knowing about you getting pictures done like that, because I really don't want to end up losing you. Don't think I'm making you out to be a bad girlfriend, because I'm really not. You just weren't aware how I would react to your pictures. They are damn sexy though. n_n You really are the best girlfriend I've ever had. I don't want to lose you over some pictures. Even if I try to blank it out, it won't work. Sorry if this has made you annoyed/sad/angry. I just really needed to get this off my chest, I wouldn't be able to go on pretending that it didn't bother me. I like to be honest in how I feel. Edited February 25, 2007 by Jonny Quote
Nemo Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 we live in a day and age when men are becoming more and more attracted to younger women. proof? schoolgirl outfits. while some of us know better, underage "modeling" is socially acceptable nowadays. hell, there are little girls now getting plastic surgery nowdays so they can win kiddie beauty pageants. times are bad, my friends. very bad. you have every right to be angry with the idea of your girlfriend supplying pedophiles with pics to gawk at. Quote
Heart Breaker Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Sounds great Jonny. Give us an update and let us know how things are in a day or two. Hope everything works out for the best. Quote
scoot Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 sorry to hear about this jonny. best thing you can do is what you have done. just request that the next set of pitures (should she go for another shoot) be more tasteful. and reassure her of your love. its certainly not something good to have on your mind right now, but good luck, hope it all works out for the best. Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 Thanks alot for your support, guys. I'll keep you updated. Quote
Big Bizang Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Is there seriously no legal action you can take here? Because this sound very very wrong. Like Daily Mail front page wrong. Sorry man. Quote
jitz Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 I reckon for us to better judge the situation you need to post the pics. Now hang on, don't go flying off the proverbial handle just yet, think about it. We here at the SmackTalks community only want to understand your point of view. For all we know you could be talking up her showing a bit of thigh. I just don't think everyone should be taking sides without knowing how these picture really were presented. I've come across many overzealous boyfriends that get protective off a bit of cleavage showing. Yes your girlfriend is female, she has tits, she will have cleavage. I just think you're exaggerating the situation to get the benefit of the doubt, thus empowering your jealous attitude towards stifling your girlfriends career of choice - being photos of her other men will see. That and the reason you don't want to post them is because 'she' is really a 'he'! Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 I reckon for us to better judge the situation you need to post the pics. Now hang on, don't go flying off the proverbial handle just yet, think about it. We here at the SmackTalks community only want to understand your point of view. For all we know you could be talking up her showing a bit of thigh. I just don't think everyone should be taking sides without knowing how these picture really were presented. I've come across many overzealous boyfriends that get protective off a bit of cleavage showing. Yes your girlfriend is female, she has tits, she will have cleavage. I just think you're exaggerating the situation to get the benefit of the doubt, thus empowering your jealous attitude towards stifling your girlfriends career of choice - being photos of her other men will see. That and the reason you don't want to post them is because 'she' is really a 'he'! Seriously, shut up. You're not helping. I'm not posting any pictures of her. I already described what one of the pictures look like. Quote
Fozy Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Even though that was fucking hilarious, I'm gonna be nice to jonny. Yeah, Jonny, everyone gets offended if your girl is gorgeous and guys are always looking at her, it's natural. She seems pretty oblivious to the fact that guys are all perverts. Even if those pictures were really fucking well done, they won't give a shit, they'll be all like, omg nipple. Just tell her she deserves better, a more tasteful shoot, make her understand she's still very young and that pictures like that are really close to being illegal, especially that one. Meh, I dunno. Hope she understands dude. Quote
Jonny Posted February 25, 2007 Author Posted February 25, 2007 Yeah, I spoke to her today. She said she's not going to be doing any more shoots like that. Here's one of the pictures from the shoot. It isn't a rude one. Quote
bigpoppn Posted February 25, 2007 Posted February 25, 2007 Six FUCKING teen??Man the guy that took the pics is a perv.Maybe you consider talking to the guy or just go see him or go with her on the photoshoot,if its a old fucking guy tell her to find another photographer. Quote
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