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Posted

As most of you know, my mum has cancer. she got it pretty badly recently as she has now got bone cancer, lung cancer, liver, neck and breast cancer. she was doing really well battling it all, and she was get much, much stronger.

last week today she was out christmas shopping; doing what she loves most; doing things to make people happy. she was get a lot more active recently, but she cut her finger on the same day and it got infected.

as some of you may know(sal?) when you go through treatment and cancer and everything for 5 years, your immune system becomes very low and well, my mum most've been at a low stage and the infection got the better of her over the next 2 days. her finger swelled up and on friday she got so bad that i needed to get an ambulance for her at 3am to go to hospital.

i sat with her for a few hours and decided to go home. a few days later i realised she was getting a bit confused, not really understanding why she was there etc. it got worse on tuesday when she didn't even know who i or my sister was and didn't know where she was either.

today we got told her situation is critical; basically she has days left to live(if that), and well it's just a waiting game now.

So, as a result me and my sister are gonna live ourselves and probably not be able to afford things such as the internet/this house for some time, and that means no smacktalks, heh.

I'll be on in the next few days, hopefully i can sort out things financially and stay on. but until then, goodbye guys.

Don't miss this good ol' horse too much!

Posted

Shit, I had no idea. :(

Nothing I can say will make anything better, but i really hope you pull through all the bullshit.

Good luck.

Posted

My thoughts are with you and your family mate. I'll miss the streams and the inane chatter on msn though. Good luck handling it however you can fella.

David.

Posted

Iain, I'm truely sorry to hear this news. I wish you all the best and hope everything works out in some way or another. You'll be in my thoughts.

Posted

Sorry to hear about that Iain, now I feel like a jerk for going back to my game. Your mom has my best wishes.

Posted

dam man, im sorry to hear that, it shouldent happen to someone like you, i just dont know what to say mate, never been any good with a situation like this, and i know i cant help in anyway really, and i know this is going to be hard on you and your familly, so seriously mate, i hope this happens as painlessly as possible for you.

Posted

Damn man, I had no idea. Best of luck with everything, I'll miss ya (ya sounds less gay than 'you'). Help your sister through it as best you can, too (I know you will).

Posted

Hope you can pull through, it will be a tough time but never lose hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Posted

i dont do much wishing, praying or thinking, so i dont really have much to give. for what its worth though, i really hope you pull through okay. this boards quality standards are going to drop significantly without you here.

come back soon, bra.

Posted

Ah man Iain... well, at least she's moving on to greener pastures :2 sorry to hear it.

Posted

Iain Hope things get better for you, best of luck and im wishing for the best.

Posted

Iain, before you go, could you crack us a joke for old times sake?

All arguements aside, best of luck man, much love.

Posted

iain man...i know i dont know you...but i lost my mum a few years back,

my heart goes out to you man....i know how you fell

keep it strong.....

Posted

iain... I know how u feel man... :(

Be strong, keep ur chin up :(

It's a long road head, but u can get to the other end of it

U know were to find us if u need to talk... :(

Posted

iain, im sorry, i had no idea, its hard dealing with these things but there are people here that have been through similar things. if you are ever able to get online and need to chat, im here and im sure theres others who could help, however, the people who helped me though my toughest times where my family, look after your sister, let her look after you and i hope that makes it easier for both of you.

you have my best wishes iain.

Posted

I am sure things will turn out for the better, I hope she gets better

Posted

hey man sorry to hear about this, i was in a similar situation a few years back. :(

I really hope things improve, my best wishes go out to you.

Posted

Oh shit. Sorry to hear about that man.

Hope to talk to you again after all this is over.

Posted

Iain you've always had good things to say, and this just sucks on so many levels. Support your sister. We'll see you soon, hopefully sooner rather than later.

:(

Posted

Umm scoot, it shouldn't happen to anyone.  :/

up til now i was under the impression that nobody reads scoots posts. i hope you're the only exception.

Posted

Damn Iain, I feel really sorry for you. It's sad yet amazing hearing what has happened to you, yet you still continue to move forward.

If it makes you feel any better I'll post this guide I found along at a website I used to go to which might help you.

Credit: EH.info

steelmaverick

July 26th, 2006, 09:57 PM

Alright now, I've figured out a way to get free dialup - nothing to download, no BS. All you need is a modem and a cellphone with long distance. Cingular with unlimited Nights and Weekends works great.

Basically what makes all this work is a special code you enter on your cellphone. You dial *21*XXX-XXX-XXXX# on your cell. This is a special code that makes the phone forward all calls to a specific number, which is what the X's are. To exit this mode, dial #21#.

Now there are places that offer free dialup, but they are located in New England. So, using the cellphone hack, you enter the number of one of the dialup servers as the X's on your cellphone, and using your computer, set up a connection with the username as "guest" and the password as "password". But, you put your cellphone number as the number to dial.

When you connect, your modem dials your cellphone, which routes the call to the number you specified. This is a great way to get long distance using your cellphone minutes!

Note: When you do this, it uses your cellphone minutes. Make sure to call your provider to make sure there isnt an extra charge for the long distance call.

Below are the numbers as well as the username and password.

Name : Guest

Pass : Password

Numbers:

Bainbridge: (206) 312-1000

Bainbridge: (206) 312-1500

Bainbridge: (206) 312-2500

Bainbridge: (206) 312-3700

Bellevue: (425) 786-1000

Bellevue: (425) 786-1111

Bellevue: (425) 786-7777

Bellevue: (425) 786-5073

Black Diamond: (360) 469-1000

Black

Diamond: (360) 469-1111

Black

Diamond: (360) 469-2000

Black

Diamond: (360) 469-2222

Buckley: (360) 641-1000

Buckley: (360) 641-1111

Buckley: (360) 641-1001

Buckley: (360) 641-1002

Centralia: (360) 523-1000

Centralia: (360) 523-1111

Centralia: (360) 523-1001

Centralia: (360) 523-1002

Graham: (253) 780-1000

Graham: (253) 780-1100

Graham: (253) 780-2000

Graham: (253) 780-2020

Hoodsport: (360) 717-1000

Hoodsport: (360) 717-1111

Hoodsport: (360) 717-1122

Hoodsport: (360) 717-1133

Olympia: (360) 515-3000

Olympia: (360) 515-3001

Olympia: (360) 515-3030

Olympia: (360) 515-3131

Seattle: (206) 495-1000

Seattle: (206) 424-1111

Seattle: (206) 337-5050

Seattle: (206) 337-5252

This is all FREE, no questions asked.

Posted

I usually hate having to say sentimental stuff, but I want to make an exception for a situation like this.

Cherish the time you've got left with your Mum, make sure she knows how much you love her. You definitely don't deserve this to happen to you, I can't even comprehend how awful it must be for you and your sister, the fact you haven't completely broken down shows that you're an extremely strong person, I know I couldn't do it.

You and your sister aren't going to be alone, obviously I don't know your exact circumstances, but there are going to be a lot of family, extended family, friends of the family and friends of yours and your sisters who are going to want to help to support you. Make sure your sister knows that you're always there for her though, and vice versa, cause you're the only two people who are going to be able to understand how each other feels.

Much Love, hope to see you back soon.

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