Should I?

[CS]

Well theres this girl I know and Im sure she like me and I like her but theres just one problem, she's a good friend of mines ex-girlfriend.

They broke up well I should say she dumped him about 3 weeks ago and it wasn't pretty. He was pretty heart-broken about it and had a hard time getting over it.

Ever since they broke up she has been flirting with me like crazy, she laughs at every little funny thing I do and a couple days ago she got me to flex my arms so she could feel how big they were and then she got me to flex my abs so she could feel those.

The main problem with the whole thing is that she is gorgeoous, has a great body and I might have a good connection with her too. We can have serious conversations and actually talk about things.

The only thing holding me back is my friend, I'm almost positive he would never talk to me again. I'm thinking about going out with her and keeping it quiet for a bit and slowly tell him I'm going out her or just ask him what would he do if she went out with one of his friends.

What do you guys think I should do?

Edited November 23, 2006 by Cradle_Shock

[CanaMatt]

try asking him first.

[Thom]

Stay well away at all costs.

[Heart Breaker]

Here's my honest advice as I have been here before. Except I didn't flex at all.

How close are you with this friend? Honestly, it doesn't sound like you're too close with him if you're considering going out with his ex-girl. If you're not too close, there's nothing that should be holding you back. You should be able to go out with her with no remorse. Your friend should know how it works. Of course it's going to hurt him, but he needs to get over her anyway. Am I correct?

You'll realize that this relationship will end up being a fling. You guys will fall in "love" possibly. You'll be all over each other. You'll have some fun. But in the end, it'll end. You'll be crushed. And she'll probably date one of your friends just to piss you off.

Conclusion? Go out with her. It'll end. But you might as well live for the moment. You're young. You have plenty of opportunities to fuck up with girls. Your friend will probably hate you. But like I said, you probably don't care that much. If you did care, you wouldn't be thinking about being with her.

Oh, and the moment you see her touching another guys biceps after the relationship ends, just know that I told you so.

[CS]

Well I forgot to mention he's on the football team with me which wouldn't really make a difference but I'm a 155 pound reciver and he's a 230 pound linebacker that has a bad temper.

It's not that I'm stared he's going hit me so hard I break in half its just that I don't/shouldn't have to be worrying that a player on my own team is going to try and injure me during a practice.

[Nemo]

zach morris would go for it. then again, you seem more like a jim levenstein.

i suppose you could ask him for permission to date his ex. it makes you look like a god damn coward, but eh. whatever makes you happy.

[CS]

I like to think of myself as a Cory Matthews.

[Nemo]

thats matt gray, fool.

[Aero]

its 1 of those unwritten guy rules, don't do it, it wont turn out good.

also, how well do you know her? mayb she's been alot nicer and more interested in you since she broke up with your mate? if so, she could be using you to piss her ex off even more, women can be spaz-tastic like that!

[CanaMatt]

I like to think of myself as a Cory Matthews.

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WHAT THE FUCK

[crunk]

The main problem with the whole thing is that she is gorgeoous, has a great body and I might have a good connection with her too. We can have serious conversations and actually talk about things.

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That's a problem?

[Can't Be Arsed]

Make sure you're not being used to make your mate jealous, girls pull that shit all the time.

[Big Bizang]

I'd clear it with him. But that's just me. I've dated my friend's ex before but he's one of the most sound, chilled out guys I know. He just didn't care. It's great when that happens. I mean she was bitch and all but she was easy so... meh.

Aaaaaaaaaaanyway, go out with her sometime, like hanging out and all that non-serious shit and see where it goes before pissing off Jocky McJockerson.