R.I.P

[Aero]

For all those who saw my post about my fathers health, he passed away on sunday evening, we had to switch off the machines as he would never recover. the funeral was today and it was a perfect tribute to him.

R.I.P Winston Montgomery Neill

15th August 1944 - 04 December 2005

you will be greatly missed and everything i do will come from the strength you have always given to me,

with love,

your youngest son,

David

[Matt]

so sorry to hear that, aerofreak, thoughts are with you and your family..

[CanaMatt]

very sorry to hear, my condolences.

[[SaNtAnA]]

My Condolences To You And Your Family

[samountain]

Sorry to hear man. My Condolences to you and your family.

[tokidoim]

Nothing hurts forever, buddy. Peace.

nosig

[kebongski]

oh, sad to hear that. condolences man.

[The Don]

Sorry to hear that. R.I.P.

Edited December 7, 2005 by Matt

[scoot]

very sorry to hear about that aerofreak, i hope the pain of it all dulls and eventually leaves as soon as possible, sorry to hear about it man

[Tychoma]

Sorry aero, hope you and your family can get through it together in due time. I know from the same experience how important it is not to wallow in your own feelings of loss, instead to 'remember the good times'- as clich

[Aero]

hi, thanks foe everyones support, the last few days have been tough but thanks to all the friends and family, neighbours and local shop owners, the wake, the funeral and me and my bros goin for a quiet drink last night, the pain is very minimal, dad had a good send off, we did him proud and we all feel just a little bit stronger for it.

thanks again

David

[Nemo]

pardon the belated response - ive been avoiding/contemplating to reply to this thread since you made it. im at a loss for words here. i seriously dont know what to tell you, man. people here whine about their girlfriends and boyfriends leaving them - but you've experienced a real loss.

to be honest with you, i dont think you need any condolences, or sympathy or people feeling sorry for you. you're handling the situation damn fucking good.

i commend you.

[Fozy]

Yeah aero, I prefer not to get involved in these situations either.

Just one thing though; you're handling this fucking well, being the youngest of his sons and all, I can tell he was a well respected man, thankfully he will always be remembered that way.

Condolences. Keep your chin up .

[WordLifeCj]

I'm sorry about your loss.

It's nice to see your still well though.

[Aero]

sal, iain, 2 very good posts, thanks to everyone who passed on their condolences etc but u 2 guys got it bang on.

i didnt post here for sympathy (tho any recieved is more than welcomed) i posted as both an update and an outlet.

i was in a terrible state on sunday, monday and part of tuesday but tuesday was perfect, my dad would have loved it.

i cried my ass off quite a bit, even before he passed away but i am ok now, it hurts and i wish it never happened but it did. i have 4 other brothers and they have been just as strong and we have helped each other. my 2 sisters are not doing as well and my mum is still in a bit of a state but atleast us 5 boys are their for them like dad would have been.

seeing the number of people who turned up both at the wake and the funeral, the cards recieved etc and the number of people who told all of us boys how much we where like our father, who was a strong and determined man (even if that did mean he was very stubborn at times) gave us alot of strength.

finally, since my father passed i have noticed something, i have his eyes, i've only noticed it, possibly just coinsidence but never the less it, to me, feels like its visual proof that my father rreally is with me.

so once again, thank you everyone for your well wishing etc but thank you Sal and Iain for really getting it.

[Fozy]

Wow, you really are dealing with this well. A lot of respect.

[RocknSock]

Sorry to hear that your father is dead dude, and hell yeah you are handling this well. May your father rest in peace.

Life goes on Aerofreak, life goes on...

Spend all your time waiting for that second chance

For the break that will make it all okay

There's always some reason to feel not good enough

And it's hard at the end of the day

[Thom]

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[David]

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[Aero]

could someone close or delete this post. i got what i needed off my chest and dont really see the need to read shitty eminem and limp bizkit lyrics being posted to bump this topic