what is it with women

[bigpoppn]

lmao!!

[Aero]

so, back on topic.

we met today. she clearly doesnt know what she wants and as such i have taken advantage. her family are messed up and its fucking with her head. i told her i'd give it another go but only if she wanted and told her not to answer straight away. she hinted she needs time but was very clear on her fear of me being in a relationship in a few months.

as such i've told her i have no plans to be in a relationship and if it takes a few months then it takes a few months, but at the same time i told her i had no intentions of waiting for a decision and that i was gonna start on the road to getting over her. i also said if we do get back together, i don't want ANY arguements or comments about anything i do or anyone i went with during the time we are split up.

as such, i intend to have sex with the ex until i find someone else hot or have a few 1 night stands until she comes back... if she comes back. so i win either way.

[Fozy]

bad move.

[Aero]

i care not

[Fozy]

you obviously do.

[Aero]

i'll not go straigh into having sex with ppl, but im pretty sure that at some stage i'll end up doing something with someone and i wanted to cover my back before hand.

[Fozy]

still stupid.

[Aero]

the stupid thing would be to not go out and enjoy myself, and if in doing so i end up with someone because im drunk and horny, when its her that wanted to split up, then... i dunno where im going with this, but shut up lol

[Fozy]

you obviously love her, if you have a chance to sort things out, take it. don't do something that could potentially prevent you to ever getting back together.

[Aero]

i do, but given a few months i may feel like its hopeless etc, try to move on and sleep with someone which i think is fair enough. mayb after that she'll change her mind, but i shouldnt have to wait 4 months for example judt out of hope.

[Big Bizang]

I think it's fair enough. She has to see that she doesn't own you or have sole jurisdiction over you. She was the one that ended it and she needs to accept the consequences, she can't have it both ways. I think what you're doing is the most healthy thing to do.

That being said, jumping into bed with someone else (especially an ex) straight away is never the answer. Don't go looking for sex.

[Thom]

You'll get bored of one-night-stands. I split up with my girlfriend in January, and thought it would be awesome to be like those fags from Skins, so I started getting wasted and trying to fuck everything. Fun for a while, but after about 5, ultimately unewarding and I was beginning to tarnish my reputation. Now the last time I've had sex with somebody new is April. You have to find these things out for yourself though, so have fun doing that!

[Aero]

i went through that before and it does get boring... and awkward sneaking out of houses in the morning etc, but basicly my general point is im not gonna wait. at the minute i'm still looknig at girls thinking "you're not kirsty", next there will no doubt be a stage where i compare them to her and/or look for a fairly similar replacement (which will be hard as she is quite different to most girls our age) then i'll probably be ready to make up a bit of lost time but riding a few randoms. if it takes her that long, which will easily be a few months then it really is her own fault. it that or i sit in and be good, crying over old pictures etc... fuck that.

also, the thing about my previous ex, she is generally a bastard, but there is something about her eyes, i honestly have got lost in her eyes and next thing i know im groping her or something... not since i got with kirsty mind, but still, there always was something with her eyes and i cant help but feel when im at despiration point for sex i'll end off sticking my end in her.

[Aero]

right, fuck it, i'm drunk! i wnet to a club and had no interest in pulling, worse still, its the 1st time i''ve went to this club and had no interest pointed at me. worse still, the music sucks more than ever and i know that none of these girls actually look like whats below the makeup. not only do i miss kirsty more now, but if she doesnt want to get back with me, i'm fucked!!!

alos, she texted me 16 times earlier, some of which i replied with 1 or 2 word answers in an attempt to stop her replying. now, with her knowing where i was going and how likely i would pull. was this a clever ploy from her to text me, or am i just being a twat?

[Fozy]

she still cares for you, shits happening, don't be an arse

[Aero]

she still cares, after tonight, i'm pretty sure i will care for a long long time, but if she keeps finding out when im heading out and texting me to point out that she is still there, it seems unfair. if she wants me nack, she wants me back, if not, she should leave me be.

also, i've spent like

[CS]

I'm half sure I warned you about what was going to happen if you went after that girl poppn and advised you not to and then everybody got pissed at me and said you should go for it, nobody ever listens to the Canadians.

For the sake of a couple laughs I'll share another one of my girlfriend and me's disasterous attempts at having sex in possibly bad places.

So we were doing it on the bleachers of the football field I play at(her idea) at like 2:30am and were in doggystyle position where she is leaning over them facing higher parts and I'm sorta standing on a bench like 2 below her and it gets pretty windy suddenly and I'm like fuck it who cares about a little wind and then a rain drop falls on my cheek so I start thinking we better hurry up we only have like 4 minutes before it starts pouring and suddently like a fucking crazy ass storm hits and pull out right away and step back with the intention of pulling up my shorts and forget that were on bleachers and fall down about a good 2/3 of them and end up smacking the back of my head on an edge knocking me out and getting a pretty big gash from it which ends up getting 3 stiches and a cuncossion.

[Terrster]

I got an idea! go gay! Lol, jokes....Naw seriously man, I agree with Iain. Maybe your to focused on what she has to do when really you've got a part in that relationship aswell.....and yes Jordan! OH CANADA! lol...I keepin peace with other countries aswell, no hating! lol why were you fucking at the top of the bleachers? lol.

Edited August 12, 2007 by Terrster

[CS]

Well basicly she likes to do it outside.

[Aero]

i've made my reasons to her for wanting to try again, trying to convince her of things she needs convincing of etc so as such, thats me done for now. if i keep pushing, i'll push her away completely, so until she makes another move i can't do anything really, when she takes action again, then i'll do something else.

[Thom]

Ok listen to me now.

Last Saturday I went to my old housemate's 21st birthday BBQ, and thought Lydia was mature enough to see friends who she hadn't seen in a while, so I invited her along. Everything was ok, and then she went inside to get a drink, I got up to get a burger, and my friend Steve asked me to get him one. I bring the last two burgers over for me and him, and she complains that I didn't offer her one. Nobody's offering anybody one, it's a help yourself situation. She stood up sulking, refusing to sit in "anybody elses seat" because people were just sitting anywhere, without designated places, and somebody took hers. Because I didn't give her my 100% undivided attention, she disappears for a while, drinking anything she can get her hands on, she doesn't handle alcohol very well at all, it's probably worth pointing out.

I go to the bathroom, and when I come out she's stood by the door, saying she wants to talk to me and she won't leave me alone, so I try to play it off like a play-fight, and kick her in the stomach. She doubles over and starts crying, but it's like when a three-year-old makes themself cry. I whip out the phone and take a video so I can Hasselhoff her ass out of drinking in the future. I leave her to her tantrum and go downstairs, she comes down later on in tears and demands I go and talk to her, she keeps saying "YOU DON'T EVEN CARE!" and all sorts of girly shit, and then comes the master stroke. I say "We'll talk out the front", open the door for her, and slam it behind her, and call her Mum to let her know she's had too much to drink and needs picking up. One wrong address and a visit to a party later, her Mum has taken her away and I go about my night without her.

The next day she calls to apologise, claiming not to know what happened. Yeah right. On Monday we go to the gym, and she asks what I did after she left, I said I tried to get into a club, but they wouldn't let me in, so I went and met Nina* in town, she said "What, on your own?!" Yeah "Oh GOOD!". And storms out of the gym. I stay and pump irenz.

On Thursday she came to play Badminton and everything was relatively normal. I'm owning the bitch, to the extent where she accidentally hit herself on the head with a racket, and she crouches holding her head. I tell her that she looks like she does in the video, and I show it to her. She storms out sulking, and I go out and ask what's wrong. She informs me that she read in a book that you're not allowed to be friends with somebody that broke your heart, so she doesn't think we should be. I say that's fine, whatever she needs to do, and then we go our seperate ways because I had a driving lesson.

Couple of days later she has a go at me for apparently trying to rub my "latest fling" in her face via Myspace bulletins. Anybody on my friends list will know that I leave about 3 survey bulletins a day when I'm at work, out of pure boredom. She tries to get back at me by leaving one with answers such as;

5. Ever been to a friend's house and starved the whole time?

Yeah, Will, Swell and Rainy's house all of last summer.

(She's referring to my house, I lived there with Whill all summer, Swel and Rainy moved in in November. Way to go noob.)

9. When a friend walks out of your life, do you go after them or let them go?

The last one i 'let go' i should hope is gone for good.

11. Has anyone ever been more important to you than a family member?

I thought so but that was a silly mistake! Family never let you down, remember that kids.

12. Do you still see any of your ex's?

i'd like to be friends with Dev. He's cool. But i chose to stop seeing one ex last week.

23. Name five things you did yesterday?

Woke up later than planned

Had a shower

Had a tan

Went to the gym

Dumped a friend.

24. Last time you had a boyfriend/girlfriend?

From May last year til January this year. Looking for a real man this time please.

And she's added "I wish I never fell in love! 16 was too young" to her profile.

In summary, it's cute when girls try to pretend they're over Thom Archer. Oh and we've been apart now longer than we were together.

Girls are crrrrrazy.

[Joe =/]

SHE STILL WANTS IT.

btw, i couldn't leave the topic without saying lmfao @ the kicking in the stomach. Awesome.

Edited August 13, 2007 by Joe =/

[Fozy]

you had kicked her in the stomach, she had bent over...

WHERE WAS THE FUCKING STUNNER, THOM?

[Thom]

It wouldn't have been right, I had my back turned to her and I kicked backwards. If it was a toe-kick then the stunner would definitely have followed; you know me.

[Aero]

could have been a sneaky stunner, like "oh, his back is turned, he wont be able to stunner me from that position then WHAM, bent over and stunned without you having to go to the effort of facing her, kicking her, turning around then stunning. just kick-stun walk on