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#1 salizzle

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 09:58 PM

As most of you know, my mum has cancer. she got it pretty badly recently as she has now got bone cancer, lung cancer, liver, neck and breast cancer. she was doing really well battling it all, and she was get much, much stronger.

last week today she was out christmas shopping; doing what she loves most; doing things to make people happy. she was get a lot more active recently, but she cut her finger on the same day and it got infected.

as some of you may know(sal?) when you go through treatment and cancer and everything for 5 years, your immune system becomes very low and well, my mum most've been at a low stage and the infection got the better of her over the next 2 days. her finger swelled up and on friday she got so bad that i needed to get an ambulance for her at 3am to go to hospital.

i sat with her for a few hours and decided to go home. a few days later i realised she was getting a bit confused, not really understanding why she was there etc. it got worse on tuesday when she didn't even know who i or my sister was and didn't know where she was either.

today we got told her situation is critical; basically she has days left to live(if that), and well it's just a waiting game now.

So, as a result me and my sister are gonna live ourselves and probably not be able to afford things such as the internet/this house for some time, and that means no smacktalks, heh.

I'll be on in the next few days, hopefully i can sort out things financially and stay on. but until then, goodbye guys.

Don't miss this good ol' horse too much!

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 10:41 PM

Shit, I had no idea. :(

Nothing I can say will make anything better, but i really hope you pull through all the bullshit.

Good luck.

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 10:57 PM

My thoughts are with you and your family mate. I'll miss the streams and the inane chatter on msn though. Good luck handling it however you can fella.

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 11:02 PM

I wish you the best.. :(

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 11:37 PM

Iain, I'm truely sorry to hear this news. I wish you all the best and hope everything works out in some way or another. You'll be in my thoughts.

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 11:44 PM

Sorry to hear about that Iain, now I feel like a jerk for going back to my game. Your mom has my best wishes.

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Posted 07 December 2006 - 11:50 PM

dam man, im sorry to hear that, it shouldent happen to someone like you, i just dont know what to say mate, never been any good with a situation like this, and i know i cant help in anyway really, and i know this is going to be hard on you and your familly, so seriously mate, i hope this happens as painlessly as possible for you.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:03 AM

Damn man, I had no idea. Best of luck with everything, I'll miss ya (ya sounds less gay than 'you'). Help your sister through it as best you can, too (I know you will).

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 01:06 AM

Hope you can pull through, it will be a tough time but never lose hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 02:05 AM

i dont do much wishing, praying or thinking, so i dont really have much to give. for what its worth though, i really hope you pull through okay. this boards quality standards are going to drop significantly without you here.

come back soon, bra.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 02:36 AM

Ah man Iain... well, at least she's moving on to greener pastures :2 sorry to hear it.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 03:44 AM

Iain Hope things get better for you, best of luck and im wishing for the best.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 05:32 AM

Sorry to hear dude.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 08:15 AM

Iain, before you go, could you crack us a joke for old times sake?

All arguements aside, best of luck man, much love.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 08:37 AM

iain man...i know i dont know you...but i lost my mum a few years back,
my heart goes out to you man....i know how you fell

keep it strong.....

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 10:21 AM

iain... I know how u feel man... :(

Be strong, keep ur chin up :(
It's a long road head, but u can get to the other end of it

U know were to find us if u need to talk... :(

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 11:03 AM

iain, im sorry, i had no idea, its hard dealing with these things but there are people here that have been through similar things. if you are ever able to get online and need to chat, im here and im sure theres others who could help, however, the people who helped me though my toughest times where my family, look after your sister, let her look after you and i hope that makes it easier for both of you.

you have my best wishes iain.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:29 PM

I am sure things will turn out for the better, I hope she gets better

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 04:24 PM

hey man sorry to hear about this, i was in a similar situation a few years back. :(
I really hope things improve, my best wishes go out to you.

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Posted 08 December 2006 - 05:44 PM

Umm scoot, it shouldn't happen to anyone. :/